Last night, we had our first discussion in a while. On a regular basis, we discuss how our projects are going; each pair presents their new ideas and the others ask questions to try to clarify and point out future problems. It was louder and more fun than the last one. That tone might have had something to do with our leaders not being immediately present. However, we still got work done. We relied on each other’s advice and ideas more than ever before. There was an understanding that each of these projects did not only belong to the group leading it, but to everyone. Our hesitation has definitely decreased as we journey together, as our reliance on each other has increased.

Since the beginning, the boat has very slowly been getting louder. It first happened right after mealtime. During meals it’s actually a little quiet because we’re hungry, but the minute we finish up the talking and laughter begins. Gatherings in the salon (the central gathering place below deck on the boat) have been getting more laughter filled, even the nightly meetings. During these meetings we learn what time our half-hour long anchor watch is and who we will be expected to wake up next. It’s not very enjoyable considering it reminds us we’ll have to wake up in the middle of the night. Even during these we rely on each other to keep the energy up and keep it fun.

The shift of mood and operation of the group has only shown itself in small changes. But it had been so important and added much to the experience, including extra jokes and fun. I’m beginning to realize how much I’ll miss these kids, but I know we’ll be seeing each other throughout the semester so that helps a little bit. But relying on each other surely has brought us together.